Saturday, January 1, 2022

Top Reads of 2021

I read 73 books in 2021, 5 less than 2020 and 7 less than my goal. It was that kind of a year. The oldest book I read was published in 1988 (The Silence of the Lambs) and the newest was recently published in 2021 (Fear No Evil). I rated 20 a 5/5, including the following books. These are the top ten books I read, in no particular order

Impact Players
 by Liz Wiseman (2021)
After writing about managers who get the most out of their employees in Multipliers, a terrific management book, Wiseman switches her focus to the employees. Most of us, even managers, are employees. We work for others. But what kind of players are we? Are we regular contributors, who do our work and go home, under-contributors, who don't achieve our potential? Or are we (or want to be) impact players, who regularly make a significant impact for our organizations? Wiseman compares and contrasts impact players and regular performers and shows us how we can rise above the pack and become impact players. It's an inspiring book and worth a read if you are still in the workplace.
Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Been and Roger Fisher (2010)
2021 was a tough year for me, with some painful conflicts that are still unresolved. One prompted me to get some counseling/therapy and those discussions led me to focus on how I handled difficult conversations. This book, from the Harvard team that wrote the famous negotiation book, Getting to Yes, has helped me a lot. The authors focus on working through the three conversations: the what happened conversation, the feeling conversation, and the identity conversation. By focusing on contribution rather than blame, recognizing that we have both contrbibuted to the issue, we can embark on a learning conversation, seeking to understand the other's position and sharing our own before problem-solving. This edition was the 10-year anniversary reprint, so the book has stood the test of time.

Bring Me Back by B. A. Paris (2018)
This psychological suspense thriller focuses on three main characters, Finn, Layla and her sister Ellen. Finn and Layla were deeply in love and returning home to London from France, when Layla disappears without trace at a service station restroom. Fast forwards ten years, and Finn is now engaged to Ellen, Layla's sister. But shortly before their marriage, someone spots Layla. And other strange things start happening. Is Layla alive? Can Finn bring her back? Does he want her back? How will Ellen feel when she finds this out? Paris keeps the plot moving in this page-turner.
Her 
Perfect Family by Teresa Driscoll (2021)
This is another psychological thriller focused on family. It's university graduation day for Gemma Hartley. Her parents Rachel and Ed are thrilled to have VIP seats for the cathedral ceremony and this happiest of days. But as Gemma walks across the stage to get her diploma, she stumbles. She has been shot. Chaos ensues. Private Investigator Matthew Hill is first on the scene and helps bring calm and order, later gets involved in the police investigation. But is the Hartley family really as perfect as they seemed? Why was Gemma targeted? While she lays in a coma in a hospital-bed, her would-be killer is on the loose ready to try again. 
Rock Paper Scissors
by Alice Feeney (2021)
Adam and Amelia Wright seem stuck in their marriage. So, when they win a weekend away in Scotland it appears an answer to prayer. But the Scottish escape is not to a resort, but to an isolated church-turned home. To add to the plot, Adam suffers from facial blindness, so he cannot recognize people, not even Amelia. Every year, they exchange a traditional gift (paper, cotton, pottery, etc.) for their anniversary, while she writes a letter that he never gets to read. This anniversary is a make-or-break for them. But there are other characters that are behind the scenes, or even hidden, who will have a say in the life-or-death of this marriage and of these characters. 
Playing Nice by JP Delaney (2020
Pate and Maddie Riley have a lovely little boy. That is, until Miles Lambert shows up on his London doorstep with some devastating news. Their sons were switched at birth in the hospital two years before. As the two families try to move forwards in an unconventional manner, a lawsuit and an official investigation unearth disturbing questions. Who is playing nice in this psychological thriller about families with secrets and shocking intentions?
Hairpin Bridge 
by Taylor Adams (2021)
I discovered Taylor Adams a couple of years ago in the tremendous No Exit. His latest book is another full-throttle thriller, about estranged twin sisters. One, Cambry Nguyen, drove to Hairpin Bridge outside Missoula, Montana, and jumped 200 feet to her death. The other, Lena, doesn't buy this official story. Why were there sixteen 911 calls before her suicide? Why was she pulled over an hour before her death why cop Corporal Raycevac? What really happened? Lena is determined to get to the bottom of this mystery by interviewing Raycevac and they both return to Hairpin Bridge.



Eyeshot
 by Taylor Adams (2014)
Here's another gripping, edge-of-your seat thriller, by Adams, his debut novel. A couple is traveling through the Mojave desert on their way to start a new life when their car mysteriously breaks down. Without cell phone service and little water, they are in trouble. More disturbing is the sniper who has them in his cross-hairs from a mile out. Pinning them down, they have nowhere to go and no one to help them. Taylor Adams is definitely an author to watch!
Billy Summers  
by Stephen King (2021)
What's a top reads list without a Stephen King book? And talking about snipers, Billy Summers is a war vet and sniper. But he's put his skills to work as an assassin, a hit man who will kill as long as he is killing those who deserve to die. So, an assassin with morals. For his latest and last job, he has to wait in small town America, taking the disguise of a writer. But he starts writing his story, his memoir. As he does so, he realizes he has one last shot at love and redemption. Summers is a complex character, an antihero who becomes a hero. And Billy Summers is a multi-layered propulsive thriller, with a touch of loving romance and hint of hard-boiled noir. Definitely a satisfying read from the king of writing.


The 7 1/2 Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle  by Stuart Turton (2018)
One of my daughters college friends recommended this book, and it turned out to be my favorite read of 2021. It's intriguing tagline says it all: A murder mystery novel inspired by Agatha Christie with a dash of Groundhog Day and a hint of Quantum Leap and Downton Abbey. Could the book really live up to this? Yes, it did. This is a mystery, but with a number of twists. Not the least of which is the protagonist. At first he doesn't even know his name (Aiden Bishop). When we first meet Bishop, he is someone else, a guest at a strangely awkward dinner party. What we learn later, is that Bishop is inhabiting the body of this guest. And each day he will inhabit the body of another guest for 7 more days. Unless, he can solve the mystery of the murder of Eveyln Hardcastle, who keeps dying each night. But why must he do this? Why is this happening? It takes a bit to get into the story but once the plot is clear, it is engrossing with twist after twist. If you like mysteries of any kind, this is a must-read.

Thursday, November 25, 2021

Turkey Films 2021

We thought 2020 was bad, but 2021 was another weird year of working entirely remotely and meeting via Zoom or MS Teams. COVID-19 and its yo-yoing mask mandates polarized us into either fatigued acceptance of fervent denial. Perhaps the only good thing, apart from the vaccines, was the simultaneous release of new movies in theaters and on streaming services. This allowed me to see new movies, like Dune, without risking breathing virus-filled air with a room full of strangers. We will once again be jettisoning the big family Thanksgiving day dinner, partly due to the fact that the dining room is now an office, and enjoying a chicken pie with one of my kids.

Once again, this post will focus solely on movies that feature masks, since we have come to love living in our masks. See if you can recognize and remember these movies from yesteryear. One day, I will be back in a movie theater, but that year is not 2021.

If you are new to "Turkey Films", check out the "rules" laid out in the first of these annual posts from way back in 2011.

Happy and safe Thanksgiving to all.

  • V for Vendeturkey
  • Turkeys Wide Shut
  • The Dark Turkey Rises
  • The Texas Turkey Saw Massacre
  • The Turkey I Live in
  • The Turkey of the Opera
  • The Elephant Turkey
  • Hallowturkey
  • Watchturkeys
  • Turkey Break


Friday, January 1, 2021

Top Reads of 2020


I read 78 books in 2020, 5 more than 2019, with a total of 26428 pages, 6000 more than in 2019. The oldest book I read was published in 1981 (Red Dragon) and the newest was an ARC version of a book that will be published in 2021 (A Matter of Life and Death). I rate 25 a 5/5, I gave six a 3/5, and the remainder scored 4/5.

Here are the top 5. Only two of these books were from authors I had previously read. More surprisingly, only two of these crime thrillers, my favorite genre. The top 3 relate to self-improvement, both spiritual and psychological.


A Matter of Life and Death by Philip Margolin (2021)
Margolin's latest book brings Portland Defense Attorney Robin Lockwood one of her most difficult trials. When a homeless man is arrested for killing a prominent judge's wife, the case against him seems  hopeless for him. His DNA and prints are all over the scene and he is seen fleeing the property by the  husband who has an airtight alibi. Yet, Lockwood senses the man is innocent and the case is too pat. This is the fourth in the Robin Lockwood series and it reunites her with Amanda Joffe, another defense attorney and the star of another one of Margolin's series. 


The Law of Innocence by Michael Connelly (2020)
The latest crime thriller from Connelly reunites Mickey Haller, the Lincoln Lawyer, with his half-relative Harry Bosch, retired LAPD detective. After a night of celebrating a trial win for the defense, Haller is pulled over on his way home. With a dead body found in his trunk, he is charged with murder and finds his newest client his most personal: himself. Bosch offers his services and Connelly also reunites Haller with his ex-wife, as she comes over to the dark side to help his defense. This is everything you'd expect from Connelly, with the added bonus of so many of his familiar characters.


A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World,  2nd Edition  -     By: Paul Miller, David Powlison
A Praying Life
 by Paul Miller (2009)
I find prayer to be very hard. I know it is all about relationship with God, but knowing and doing are two different things. Pastor Tim Osborn of Mosaic Church mentioned this book in one of his sermons in 2020 and I took note. Miller explains a pattern for living in relationship with God drawing on his own personal experience. It includes some practical tips like prayer cards. I ended up buying his prayer app as a modern prayer card alternative. My prayer life is not exactly vibrant yet, but it is better than it was at the start of 2020.



Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges
Presence  by Amy Cuddy (2015)
I watched Cuddy's TED Talk on Power Poses this year and enjoyed it so much I wanted to read her book, written afterwards. We all know that body posture can speak volumes to others, but the concept here is that it can also speak to ourselves. Presence, then, is the state we achieve by accessing our personal power and stop worrying about our impression on others. In particular, she offers several power poses, such as the famous Wonder Woman pose, which, if we hold for just two minutes will affect us physically and allow us to do a better job -- whether in an interview or a speech, or anything that might make us nervous. I have tried this myself, before an important speech or two at work, and can testify to its veracity.

Broadcasting Happinesss: The Science of Igniting and Sustaining Positive Change
Broadcasting Happiness  by Michelle Gielan (2015)
I took a coursera class on happiness offered by Yale ast year and this book was one of the recommended readings. I borrowed it rom the library and loved it so much I bought my own copy. Gielen was a CBS news anchor who got tired of broadcasting negativity every day. So, she quit and went back to school in the field of positive psychology and eventually wrote this book. We are all broadcasters, transmitting information to those around us. But are we transmitting positive info or negative new, are we communicating happiness or sadness? Small changes in how we communicate can lead to higher productivity and lower stress; ultimately it leads to more happiness. Filled with detailed data, tools and tips, this is a book that helped me become a happier, more positive person. I still have a ways to go, but I am now on the right path.

Sunday, December 27, 2020

Book Review: A Matter of Life and Death


Title: A Matter of Life and Death

Author: Phillip Margolin

Publisher: Minotaur Books
Publication Date: March 9, 2021
Rating: 5 out of 5

Margolin's latest book brings Portland Defense Attorney Robin Lockwood one of her most difficult trials. When a homeless man is arrested for killing a prominent judge's wife, the case against him seems hopeless for him. His DNA and prints are all over the scene and he is seen fleeing the property by the husband who has an airtight alibi. Yet, Lockwood senses the man is innocent and the case is too pat.

This is the fourth in the Robin Lockwood series and it reunites her with Amanda Joffe, another defense attorney and the star of another one of Margolin's series. Sadly, Joffe gets too little time here, but it is still great to have them back in a murder trial. I love the setting in Portland, Oregon, as it is my adoptive hometown and I can picture the locations described.

I almost gave this 4 stars, but Margolin tacks on a related murder trial in the last part of the book. And this one, too, seems open and shut but ends with a wallop, a sudden courtroom twist. Three murders, all related, with Lockwood and Joffe. What's not to love about this one. It is likely to hit my best of books read list for 2020, I liked it that much.

Thank you to NetGalley for sending me an advance review copy for free;  I am leaving this honest review voluntarily.